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Stag
and Hen Nights
Bachelor and Bachelorette Parties
The stag night - also known as the bachelor party - has
a long tradition and has been the source of many laughs
in movies and TV shows. In recent decades the ladies have
increasingly been demanding their share of the fun with
hen nights (bachelorette parties).
These nights are rather unkindly referred to as the "last
night of freedom" for the bride and groom to be. The
idea is that it is a final chance to go out "on the
town" with one's favourite friends of the same gender
before taking the wedding vows and settling down to a sedate
family life. The custom is thought to have orginated centuries
ago however the exact origin is uncertain.
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are as many different stag and hen nights as there are brides
and grooms, however many follow certain general principles.
These have changed considerably over the last few generations
however they still usually involve fun, games and gifts.
It used to be considered standard for the stag and hen parties
to take place as close to the wedding as possible - possibly
even the night before. This obviously presents all sorts
of dangers, especially if the party becomes especially raucous.
We've all heard tales of the groom waking up naked and handcuffed
to a lamp post in a strange town on the morning of the wedding
day. Not all such stories are apocryphal.
Nowadays it is more common to allow a sensible "recovery
period" between the party night and the wedding itself,
at least a week preferably a fortnight.
A stag or hen party used to consist simply of the participants
visiting one or more of the local bars and clubs. Today
it is increasingly common for the whole party to go away,
often for a whole weekend. If you wish you can buy a complete
party package and book everything in advance rather than
relying entirely on the poor best man or chief bridesmaid
to organise it all. Sometime these will be based around
a particular theme.
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may surprise you to learn that the word stag hasn't always
meant "male deer". In Middle English, stag (from
the Old English stacga) could mean the adult male of any
animal, especially if castrated (!). In the 19th century
it was even used to mean a turkey-cock of two years or older.
Thus, a stag-night or stag-dinner was a function attended
by males only.
Similarly, in Middle English, hen could mean the female
of any bird. Thus a hen night or hen party is one which
is exclusively female.
Unlike stag, which meant any male animal, the Old English
henn meant a fowl of either sex.
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New
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of Stag Parties
In the UK, Ireland and Canada referred to as a stag party,
stag night, stag do, or a bucks party in Australia and bachelor
party in America is a party held for the single man just
before he enters marriage bliss with his future wife. It
is a celebration in the groom’s honour, although it
may not seem like it at the time, and is sometimes known
as his last night of freedom to answer the call of the wild
and get up to activities which his future wife may not approve
of.
It is an opportunity to gather together a group of people,
as in our New
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have had some influence or connection with the grooms rite
of passage to manhood. This can be childhood friends, schools
friends, student years, family, work colleagues and sport
team associates. It can often be the last opportunity to
get this grouping of people together before the Groom and
his peers take on more responsible adult marital roles.
This is not just you average night for drinking in the pub
or bar. It has a tradition and mystique associated with
it involving pranks, tricks and lots of drinking usually
at the groom’s expense. It often has a risqué
element such as strippers or being stripped and tied to
lampposts in the dead of night. They have an image of being
rowdy and boisterous
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The
consensus seems to be that it was originally called the
bachelor dinner, or stag party. Like many other wedding
traditions, the custom seems to extend back into ancient
history. Evidence suggests it first came about in the fifth
century, in Sparta, where military comrades would feast
and toast one another on the eve of a friend’s wedding.
There he would say goodbye to the carefree days of bachelorhood
and swear continued allegiance to his comrades.
There's another stag connection with odd male rituals -
even possibly ones that involve willingly drinking alcohol
to excess and regurgitative quantities, soliciting the favours
of ladies who are prepared happily to remove all their clothing
for the appropriate fee, and then being left naked chained
to a lamp-post somewhere. New
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The
Horned God referred to in both Celtic and early English
mythology was a symbol of all things male - the Celts called
him Cernunnos. Legend from these times is often confused,
but it seems clear that in pre-Christian times, Brits definitely
worshipped a large hairy god who sported antlers, ran around
with the Einheriar, or wild hunt, and who probably belched
at inappropriate times, never bothered putting the toilet
seat back down, and who stayed out far too late without
ever phoning home to warn anyone. These are things you will
have to get used to.
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Welsh
Custom for Hen Nights
In Wales tradition was that, female office and factory workers
leaving to get married were often dressed up with balloons,
"L" plates, carried a chamber pot (often with
salt inside) and were covered in paper flowers and sometimes
carried in a barrow to be paraded through the streets. Passing
men were encouraged to kiss the prospective bride in exchange
for money dropped into the chamber pot.This is used to raise
funds towards the wedding feast. While still in evidence,
this ritual is dying out.
The origin of Hen Parties is very practical. Hen parties
were organized by other women of the village if the bride's
father didn't accept the groom and refused to give his daughter
a decent dowry. During the party the bride was presented
with various things he would need in the first phases of
marriage. see New
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Bridal showers or Hen Nights were also said to strengthen
the ties between the bride and her friends.
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Scottish
Custom for Stag Night
On the wedding eve the bridegroom's friends throw the Stag
party that often involves a combination of pranks and local
customs. In Fife,a version of the custom of feet-washing
still persists although only the good humoured bridegrooms
permit the whole ritual that used to involve sitting in
a tub of water while his chums pulled off his stockings
and smeared his legs with a mixture of grease, soot and
ashes. In many parts of Scotland variations of this are
performed on the groom - all meant to guarantee good fortune
in his future marriage.
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A stag night, at which only males were allowed, was originally
held to ward off evil spirits before the wedding. Around
the time of Charles II hen nights were thought to have been
introduced to allow the bride's friends and family to examine
the trousseau and "bottom drawer". These days
both seem to involve a last celebration of single status
and appear to involve anything from go-karting to a week
away in the sun! - in our New
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The
stag night is the male equivalent of the Bridal Shower or
Hen Night. Roman empire soldiers would feast with the Groom
the night before his wedding to say goodbye to his irresponsible
days of bachelorhood, and to renew their vows of allegiance
to their friendships.
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The
reference to stag and bucks also has strong male conartations.
The leader of the pack or herd, virile, male vigour and
ardour, males in their prime identified with strength and
vitality. There's another stag connection with male rites
of passage - again possibly involving drinking alcohol to
excess and soliciting the favours of ladies who are prepared
happily to remove all their clothing for the appropriate
sum. The Horned God referred to in both Celtic and early
English mythology was a symbol of all things male - the
Celts called him Cernunnos. Legend from these times is often
confused, but it seems clear that in pre-Christian times,
Brits definitely worshipped a large hairy god who sported
antlers, ran around with the Einheriar, or wild hunt.
As to the word bachelor, again its history is murky. The
earliest meaning of bachelor in English is 'a young knight
who followed the banner of another'. This reference is first
found in the late thirteenth century. The use of the word
in the context of 'an unmarried man', is found in Chaucer
in the late fourteenth century.
New
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English word, seems to come from Old French. The source
of the Old French word, many believe, probably comes from
a Latin word baccalaris 'farmhand' but who really knows
well your guess is as good as the next man!
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Origins
of Stag Parties – Where does the term Come From?
This is a very good question and one we get asked alot about
when having a drink or two with our visiting stag groups.
In Britain,Canada and Ireland the event is referred to as
a stag party, stag night, stag do or stag weekend. In Australia
they are bucks parties and bachelor parties in America.
It is a party held for the single man just before he gets
married. It is a celebration in the his honour, although
it may not seem like it at the time as humiliation seems
to be the order of the day. It is also sometimes known as
his last night of freedom although the duration of the event
over recent years seems to have changed from the traditional
drink the night before the wedding to weekends away participating
in things such as adventurous activities and generally getting
involved in things his future wife may not approve of.
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is a last chance as a bachelor to gather together a group
of people who have known the him since childhood, through
school, in University and work colleagues, sports clubs
and obviously last but not least his family. It can often
be the last opportunity to get this grouping of people together
before the Groom and his peers take on more responsible
adult marital roles – mortgages, children and monthly
bills. This is not just you average night for drinking in
the pub or bar. It has a tradition and mystique associated
with it involving tricks and lots of drinking usually at
the groom’s expense. It often has a risqué
element such as strippers or being stripped and tied to
lampposts in the dead of night, body hair being shaved off,
dressing up in fancy dress with the groom in female attire
the list is endless.
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Weekends
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Although there is not much evidence around to explain the
origins of this famous tradition what evidence there is
suggests that it was originally called the bachelor dinner,
or stag party. Like many other wedding traditions, it seems
to extend back into ancient history. Evidence suggests it
first came about in the fifth century, in Sparta, where
military comrades would feast and toast one another on the
eve of a friend’s wedding. There he would say goodbye
to the carefree days of bachelorhood and swear continued
allegiance to his comrades.
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Hen
NIght Garter
Brides originally tossed a garter, rather than a bouquet,
at a wedding reception. In the 14th century, this custom
changed after Brides became tired of fighting off drunken
men who tried to remove the garter themselves! According
to one legend, the garter toss in England evolved from an
earlier tradition of "flinging the stocking".
On their wedding night, guests would follow the Bride and
Groom to their bedroom, wait until they undressed, steal
their stockings, and then "fling" them at the
couple! The first person to hit the Bride or Groom on the
head would supposedly be the next person to marry.
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Years ago women were deemed to belong to their father. When
she married it was therefore her father who "gave her
away" along with her property to the groom - to whom
she then belonged! In some cases the groom was also given
a pair of the bride's old shoes to indicate that it was
now his responsibility to keep the bride in shoe leather.
Groom Kidnaps Bride
The groom used to kidnap his bride and hold her on his left
arm, so that his sword arm was free to fight off any other
suitors. This is why the groom normally stands on the right
of the bride during the wedding ceremony. If the groom needed
help to kidnap his bride he would ask his best friend to
be his "best man".
Marriage was often used as a means to bring together two
opposing tribes so the families sat on opposite sides in
order to try and avoid any fighting in the church.
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Wedding
Gifts for the Bride
A bride may be given a silver sixpence and asked to place
it in her shoe on the wedding day. Though this may sound
a very uncomfortable way to walk around on the day the giver
is hoping that it will bring you a life of fortune so it
may turn out to be a small price to pay if it works!
So meting Old - Something New - New
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- ??? !!!
Nearly every couple is aware of the old rhyme about something
old, something new, something borrowed, something blue but
what does it all signify? The "something old"
is to show the durability of marriage and the continuity
of your old life into the new married one. The "something"
new symbolises the start of building your new life together
as a married couple. The "something borrowed"
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is the one which you may wish to choose most carefully as
it should be from a happily married woman whose virtues
you most wish for, to assist in ensuring marital bliss.
The "something blue" is used to promise love,
fidelity and purity.
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Buttonholes
Traditionally men wear their buttonholes on the left lapel
pointing upwards, whilst women wear theirs on the right
lapel. The custom follows on from the early days of jousting,
where a Knight would wear his Lady's colours to represent
his love for her.
Wedding Ring - Engagement Ring - New
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The custom of wearing a wedding ring stems from ancient
times when a bride might have worn a ring made of hemp or
rushes, which would have been frequently replaced. The ancient
Egyptians believed that the circular shape of the ring was
a sign of undying, never ending love, a love without beginning
or end. Some of the early engagement rings were also used
as a wedding ring to show the "sale" of the woman
from her father to the groom, they were usually made of
gold as a sign of the groom's worth. The perfect finger
for the wedding ring to be worn on is believed to be the
third finger of the left hand, as it was traditionally thought
that this contained a vein that went straight to the heart.
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Origin
of Stag Parties - New
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In
Sparta, during the height of Greek civilisation, soldiers
were the first to hold stag parties. The groom would invite
his close friends to a supper on the eve of his wedding
to celebrate and reminisce about his past. Traditionally,
it was also held to raise money for the bridegroom so he
would be able to continue to drink with his buddies after
his wife took control of the finances! He would bid farewell
to his bachelorhood and pledge his continued allegiance
to his comrades.
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Where
Does the Term Come From?
This is a very good question. In Britain,Canada and Ireland
the event is referred to as a stag party, stag night, stag
do or stag weekend. In Australia they are bucks parties
and bachelor parties in America. It is a party held for
the single man just before he gets married. It is a celebration
in the his honour, although it may not seem like it at the
time as humiliation seems to be the order of the day. It
is also sometimes known as his last night of freedom although
the duration of the event over recent years seems to have
changed from the traditional drink the night before the
wedding to weekends away participating in things such as
adventurous activities and generally getting involved in
things his future wife may not approve of.
What Are Stag or Bachelor Parties? -New
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It is a last chance as a bachelor to gather together a group
of people who have known the him since childhood, through
school, in University and work colleagues, sports clubs
and obviously last but not least his family. It can often
be the last opportunity to get this grouping of people together
before the Groom and his peers take on more responsible
adult marital roles – mortgages, children and monthly
bills. This is not just you average night for drinking in
the pub or bar. It has a tradition and mystique associated
with it involving tricks and lots of drinking usually at
the groom’s expense. It often has a risqué
element such as strippers or being stripped and tied to
lampposts in the dead of night, body hair being shaved off,
dressing up in fancy dress with the groom in female attire
the list is endless.
New
Forest Cottages - Hen Weekends or Stag Weekends - New
Forest Cottages
Although there is not much evidence around to explain the
origins of this famous tradition what evidence there is
suggests that it was originally called the bachelor dinner,
or stag party. Like many other wedding traditions, it seems
to extend back into ancient history. Evidence suggests it
first came about in the fifth century, in Sparta, where
military comrades would feast and toast one another on the
eve of a friend’s wedding. There he would say goodbye
to the carefree days of bachelorhood and swear continued
allegiance to his comrades. - New
Forest Cottages
Why A Stag?
The reference to stag and bucks also has strong male conartations.
The leader of the pack or herd, virile, male vigour and
ardour, males in their prime identified with strength and
vitality. There's another stag connection with male rites
of passage - again possibly involving drinking alcohol to
excess and soliciting the favours of ladies who are prepared
happily to remove all their clothing for the appropriate
sum. The Horned God referred to in both Celtic and early
English mythology was a symbol of all things male - the
Celts called him Cernunnos. Legend from these times is often
confused, but it seems clear that in pre-Christian times,
Brits definitely worshipped a large hairy god who sported
antlers, ran around with the Einheriar, or wild hunt.
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Why
Bachelor?
As to the word bachelor, again its history is murky. The
earliest meaning of bachelor in English is 'a young knight
who followed the banner of another'. This reference is first
found in the late thirteenth century. The use of the word
in the context of 'an unmarried man', is found in Chaucer
in the late fourteenth century. The English word, seems
to come from Old French. The source of the Old French word,
many believe, probably comes from a Latin word baccalaris
'farmhand' but who really knows well your guess is as good
as the next man!
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